Why it’s hard to love you

I hope this second new moon in cancer has brought you more clarity and that you are feeling prepares for Leo season (full of fire and fun!).

Have you ever considered why it’s so difficult for you to love YOU? Yes, why it’s so difficult for you to love yourself fully and completely?

I have so many theories on why this might be but the top one is this…

You find it difficult to love yourself fully because you aren’t being yourself!

You have managed to create a life full of everyone else’s choices, opinions, dreams, and goals and NOT your own. So when you get to this point in life where you are like “oh shit, I should probably love myself more”, it becomes difficult.

For one you are full of shame and guilt for things not working out the way they were “supposed to” (because hey, those things.. may not have been meant for you)

Second, you are too anxious and depressed to even think about loving yourself fully and what that may even mean, because you’ve been living someone else’s life.

Are you picking up what I’m putting down here?

Every day is a new opportunity to make the choices that are correct for you and ONLY you.
No one can know what is correct for you unless they are you. And guess what? No one is you, other than you. (That sounded like a Dr. Seuss book)

Become really aware of the things you are choosing and WHY you are choosing them.
Is it because you truly value them?
Or because you value that validation you think it will bring you?
Is it because you really desire this?
Or because you’ve been brainwashed to believe it will get you to “where you should be” by the time you are whatever age you are?

We’re exploring all of these topics further plus HOW TO…

–  love yourself like Kanye loves Kanye
– increase your confidence + self esteem
– how to make correct decisions for you (and have your own back when ya don’t)
– what it means to have self worship and why it’s important
– how to follow your own path (and what that path is)
– how to reduce the amount of stimuli that is fucking with your mind
– why YOU are special, incredible, amazing
AND MORE…

Check it out here, with some incredible bonuses until the end of July!